Chapter 26: How to Form a Strong Bond in Your Relationship

Relationships are a tricky thing. They have their ups and downs. It is something that like anything else in this world needs work. If we let ourselves be loved and let things be we have much higher chance to maintain a good relationship.


Steps:

1. Be sensitive to the need of each other. When you notice any differences in your partner's behaviour, ask how is she/he is; is he/she tired or happy? A lot of times we fail to ask how our partner is because we often times so wrapped up in ourselves that we neglect each other.
2. Don't mix up the house environment with work environment. If there is any problem that is frustrating at work don't bring it at home.
3. Once in awhile give something to each other to cheer each other up. It can be a kiss, hug, candle, or a simple thank you. Remember that celebrating your loved one is not just for Valentine day.
4. Be grateful for the things each other has.
5. Look at the big picture. Don't waste each other's energy on the things that don't matter. Those things are people's affairs or non-constructive arguments.

Tips:

• Don't try to be perfect, just be you.
• Look for positive things in each other.
• Trust each other.
• Forgive each other if you have an argument.
• Don't rush into anything.
• Have patience with each other.