Chapter 16: How to Work Things out With an Ex

Having some problems with your ex? Still wanting to have them back as a friend? Here are some tips to help you out.


Steps:

1. Give both you and your ex some time. Let the both of you think it through the problems individually and see where the fault lies. This can help you to prevent the problems from re-occurring in the future.
2. Respect your ex decision. If your ex do not want to be friends back, don't take it too hard. Everyone has a right to choose who they want to be friends with.
3. Be cool about everything. If your ex ignores you during this period of time, don't pursue the matter. Give your ex space and time.
4. Let nature take its course. Only time will tell if you two are meant to be friends, lovers or enemies.
5. You can ask mutual friends to help you ask your ex about what he/she is feeling.

Tips:

• Don't act too desperate. Nobody loves a desperate person.
• Don't take everything too harshly.
• Be kind and gentle about any decision your ex made.
• Be strong.
• Nothing is impossible! Don't give up hope.