Chapter 8: How to Stay in Touch with a Girl You Like

Is there that girl that you are in complete love with but they live too far away? Do you want her to wait for you? A good way to let her know you care, (even though you're far away) is to compliment her! Here's how:


Steps:

1. Ask her for her phone number, mobile number, email address and home address so you have as many ways to contact her as possible. But don't be pushy or sneaky! If she feels uncomfortable giving you her personal information, respect her wishes.
2. Text message her occasionally so you stay on her mind but you aren't overwhelming her.When you text message make it lighthearted and humurous, avoid saying sappy things and compliments. If you don't run into any reason to text her for a while think of a subject you share common ground on and ask her a question relating to that subject. This shows her that you see her as an intelligent individual and as a valuable source of information.
3. On special occasions, such as her birthday, the anniversary you met, Christmas, Valentine's Day, etc., send her a bunch of red roses. They may be expensive, but this is the cutest thing ever a guy can do and will definitely win her over.
4. Write her love letters. Don't be obsessive, but send them regularly. Try and send them at the exact same time every month. That way, she will look forward to and get excited when she receives your letters.This is only after you know that she likes you and its established you like each other, otherwise your a Stalker. its a fine line that women wont tell you about.
5. Try to call her once a week. Do it on a day and at a time when she is not busy. If it's too expensive, try once a month. Or, use a cell phone that has free nights and weekends.
6. Send her cute emails. Do not send anything that involves porn, or is discriminating against women or about guys trying to get some. It will give her the wrong idea. Try to put cute pictures of little kids kissing or something like that, tell her you can't wait to see her again and write "original" poems for her.
7. When you have finally won her over, don't stop doing all the romantic stuff. Certain things can slow down over time but it set a precedent, plus it is important to never forget that it was the little things that drew her to accepting a relationship with you, and she'll always continue to accept and enjoy the romantic gestures.

Warnings:

• Sending letters is better than sending emails. Send cute things in them, too. Compliment her every day. Ask for photos of her and when you receive them tell her how gorgeous she looks in them (if you really like her she will look gorgeous to you all the time). If you can, try not to talk to her 24/7. You will eventually run out of things to talk about, thus making the relationship... Boring.
• If you don't respect her privacy, or if she seems to be uncomfortable with you contacting her, ask her if it's okay that you're doing these things. If she isn't okay with it, back off, or you could end up with a restraining order on you (if not from her, than from her suspicious and careful parents).
• A lot of these things are actually pretty creepy if she doesn't like you already, and even then it might still be a little needy and desperate.
• Don't try and be too pushy! It's weird, even from a guy's perspective talking to a chick.